Who has not being in love any time? Love is a strong feeling that starts with YOU. You need to love yourself before you are able to love somebody else. A loving relationship is a friendship and something more. Lovers are friends in the sense of being soul mates, honest and trust each other. But this feeling can be confusing sometimes when a love at first sight ends up only as an infatuation.
Platonic loves are more common at earlier ages but we can fall in love at any age and under any circumstances. Platonic loves can last forever (Have you ever read ¨Amor en los tiempos del
cólera by Gabriel García Márquez?¨).
True lovers are inseparable body and soul. They are emotionally loyal to each other. They like each other´s personality or character and also are supportive at any level. They leave the other the space needed to continue their personal and independent development
and also share each other´s development.
True lovers are true friends. They are not critical of their friends and don´t talk behind their backs. Friends are kindred spirits, they have a similar way to think and look at life. And although they might have their ups and downs, there is always a connection to life, a tie to the past and a road to the future.
And then adore somebody, the utmost loving feeling for a person. It is to like, to love and to admire very much someone, what that person is, thinks, does, feels, dreams, and in fact everything.!
